Out with the old … in with the new. As seniors wrap up their college applications, it’s time for 11th graders to step onto the launchpad of their own admissions journey. But here’s the truth: you can’t do it alone—and neither can your counselor. To make the most of this pivotal year, you need teamwork, communication, and respect. This article lays out how to build a strong, productive relationship with your college counselor—starting now.

Teenagers, your parents aren’t your enemies—they’re just exhausted. For years, they’ve supported you in every way, often at their own expense. Now, they need you to step up, take responsibility, and work with them, not against them. Parenting isn’t perfect, and neither are you, but success comes from learning together. Ask for help when needed, take control of your life, and remember: your parents aren’t trying to hold you back—they’re trying to lift you up.

The college admissions journey can feel overwhelming—but it doesn’t have to be. As 12th grade looms closer, now is the time for juniors and their families to get organized, focused, and confident. Are you doing enough? Are you on the right track? This guide breaks it down into four essential steps—plus one extra that can give you a serious edge. From grades to guidance, here’s what you need to know to take control and succeed.

College admissions at top U.S. universities can feel like a puzzle that defies logic. High grades, strong test scores, and an impressive resume don’t guarantee admission—and rejections can come from unexpected places. Every year, we see surprising outcomes that remind us the process isn’t linear. It’s personal, subjective, and sometimes downright baffling. This year’s example? Patrick. His journey—from rejection and waitlists to joyous surprises—shows just how unpredictable, and ultimately inspiring, this process can be.

College admissions can feel like a game of chance, often leaving remarkable students unrewarded. But outcomes don’t define worth—students or parents. Behind every decision lies a college’s shifting priorities, not a verdict on potential. At UCA, we measure success differently. When one student recently thanked us for helping her see beyond the Ivy League, it captured our mission perfectly. Her journey—and her essay—reminds us what this process is truly about: transformation.

Navigating the college admissions process can be overwhelming for both students and parents. This month, we feature Helen He, who reflects on her experience supporting her son, Jonathan, through his journey. From selecting a consultant to choosing schools and crafting essays, Helen shares the challenges, surprises, and lessons learned along the way. Her insights offer valuable guidance to parents facing the same path, emphasizing the importance of informed decision-making, patience, and finding the right fit.